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Reality: Fuck what they think  | 2023.3.21

Happy Reality Day! Here is your weekly dose of reality to help you live 1% happier.

1 Insight From Me

No matter who made all the decisions in your life for you, eventually you are the one, the only one, who swallows the shit and takes all the consequences.

Where are those motherfuckers who pointed fingers at your life at now? Are they there with you? Can they suffer for you?

So fuck what they think.

“If you buy a bigger house, we’ll definitely like you more.” “Will you cover the loan for me? No? Then shut the fuck up.”

Listen, but make your own decision.

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1 Insight From Others

“You have no responsibility to live up to what other people think you ought to accomplish. I have no responsibility to be like they expect me to be. It’s their mistake, not my failing.”

― Richard P. Feynman

1 Question For Yourself

What decision that other people made for you caused you to suffer a lot? Did they suffer for you?

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1 Small Step To Take

For the following week, each time someone makes a judgement on you, just ask yourself this one question:

Will him/she take responsibility for what him/she said?

Do you find this issue of Reality helpful? Leave a reply.

Until next week,

Ted Wild

PS: How to stop giving fucks about what others think  HERE .

Reality: 去他妈的你认为  | 2023.3.21

Happy Reality Day! 开始本周3分钟的Reality, 1%的happiness ↓








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Ted Wild

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