There is only one way to use any of the human-made rules in this world: Know the consequences of your action, make your cost/benefit analysis, and act accordingly. There is no need to follow any human-made rule, ever. We need…
Most people give up not because of limited resources, but limited mindset they put on themselves. Ask yourself these 4 questions when you are stuck on a problem or thinking of giving up: 1. Do I have to do this…
There are 4 fairnesses of life: Physical fairness, hurt fairness, future fairness, and happiness fairness. 1. Physical fairness Everyone goes through illness and death. Everyone lives for a couple of decades. Everyone can be killed with a bullet or even…
The 4 biggest unfairnesses of life are: Born unfairness, hurt unfairness, future unfairness, moral unfairness. 1. Born unfairness Some are born rich. Some are born disabled. Some are born in the U.S. Some are born in Uganda. Which lottery we…
Why can others be born into a rich family, while I work hard to earn some wages, and have to take care of my family? Why do people who deceive live so well, while my parents worked hard for half…
We are constantly comparing to others, mostly with people we know or around us. It’s human nature. It’s in our genes, something developed 200,000+ years ago but we are still carrying today. We are social creatures, knowing what others are…
This is a practical guide to dealing with overthinking, like, really practical, with worksheets and clear steps. It worked on me. What is overthinking, really? Is Einstein spend months thinking about a scientific problem with no result overthinking? If not,…
Your brain NEVER stops thinking, as I said in this article about our thoughts. It’s constantly generated thoughts, and all the automatically generated thoughts are called automatic thoughts (You don’t say). Here is what I find out about these automatic…
Thought is a magic tool humans have that enables us to dominate this planet. Here is what I find interesting about thought, and what you need to know about it if you want to live happier. 1. Your brain never…
We are the most advanced creature in this world, but how we work is actually the same as all other animals, even single-cell organisms: we go towards what feels good and avoid what’s not. For single-cell organisms, this mechanism is…